"You don't drink? Why not?"
How many times have we heard this question?
I've always worn my alcoholism on my sleeve, never ashamed to proclaim, "Because I'm an alcoholic!"
99.9% of the time, the response is something along the lines of, "Really? Wow... good for you. Keep it up!" But .1% of the time I'll run into that idiot with .1% of a brain. I call them the ".1%ers"
Years ago, I was applying for a position as a reserve officer with Burbank PD. As such, I was required to interview with a department detective. One of the (many) questions was, "How much do you drink?
Sadly, this detective was a .1%er, so the conversation went something like this...
Me: I don't drink.
Him: At all?
Me: No. Never.
Him: Why not?
Me: I'm an alcoholic. 4 years sober.
Him: I see... in that case, I think we should wrap up this interview. We can't hire you.
Me: (confused) May I ask why?
Him: You just admitted you're an alcoholic.
Me: Correct, 4 years sober.
Him: But you could relapse.
Me: And a meteor could hit LA tomorrow and vaporize us all... what does that have to do with it?
Him: We can't take a chance.
Me: What about the officers in your department who are alcoholics?
Him: We don't have any alcoholics in our department.
Me: (LAUGHED OUT LOUD)
It was at this moment I learned there are people in this world who simply do not have the intellect to grasp a concept as simple as sobriety.
Moving forward, I continued to proudly expound on my sobriety to those who inquired after my temperance. Occasionally I would come across a .1%er and would simply answer, "I don't drink because I don't like the way it makes me feel."
It's an honest answer: I don't like the hangovers, I don't like the loss of friendships or the physical breakdown of my body, mind, and soul. No answer could ring more true regarding my abstinence: "I don't like the way it makes me feel."
Feel free to use this response yourself. Not to worry, they won't see past your answer, as that would require more than .1% of brain power.
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